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BRIDE'S CHECKLIST
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  • Shop with your fiance for your engagement ring.
  • Announce your engagement to family and friends.
  • Research sites and availability for the wedding ceremony and reception.
  • Decide whether you will plan the wedding yourself or hire a consultant.
  • Meet with and confirm availability of the person who will preform the ceremony.
  • Set a date for the wedding.
  • Prepare and send your engagement announcement to your local newspaper.
  • Create a budget and determine who will pay for what.
  • Reserve locations; making deposits and returning contracts according to terms specified.
  • Determine the style of your wedding (formal, semi-formal, informal).
  • Determine the size of your guest list.
  • Ask both families to draw up their tentative guest lists.
  • Select members for your wedding party.
  • Meet with your hair stylist to discuss your best colors and wedding “look”.
  • Decide on your wedding’s color scheme.
  • Select your dress, headpiece, and accessories.
  • Shop for bridesmaids’ dresses.
  • Interview the professionals who will help with your wedding and contract for their services:
  • Photographers
  • Videographers
  • Caterers
  • Bakers
  • Florists
  • Musicians
  • Rentals
  • Schedule initial fitting for you and your bridesmaids.
  • Check out special transportation choices such as a horse and carriage or special limousines.
  • Choose invitation and stationery.
  • Discuss honeymoon plans with your fiance. Pre-book honeymoon, if possible.

  • Follow-up with key professionals who will help you with your wedding and contract for their services.
  • Photographers
  • Videographers
  • Caterers
  • Bakers
  • Florists
  • Musicians
  • Rentals
  • Locate hotels, and put a temporary hold on a block of rooms for out-of-town guests to make reservations.
  • Make menu selections with the caterer or chef.
  • Choose the wedding cake and groom’s cake.
  • Decide on song selections with musicians.
  • Sign up for dance lessons.
  • Begin flower selections for bouquets, corsages, boutonnieres, and room decoration.
  • Proofread invitations before they're printed.
  • Register for gifts at you favorite stores.
  • Find out how to get a marriage license.
  • Select wedding rings.
  • Apply for passports, if needed for your honeymoon. 
  • Send thank you notes for shower gifts.
  • Decide whether or not to hire a calligrapher to handle invitation writing.
  • Visit your dentist for a teeth cleaning/whitening.

  • Address and stamp invitations.
  • Send out invitations.
  • Discuss rehearsal dinner plans with groom’s family. Schedule wedding rehearsal.
  • Meet with your clergy.
  • Double-Check all details with wedding vendors.
  • Make salon appointments for yourself and bridesmaids for the day of the wedding
  • Arrange for wedding day transportation.
  • Finalize honeymoon plans.

  • Shop for honeymoon wardrobe.
  • Meet with the wedding guild chairperson from your church if you are planning a church wedding.
  • Get forms for name change.
  • Send change of address for to post office, if necessary.
  • Prepare wedding announcements to be mailed, if appropriate.
  • Purchase gifts for the wedding party.
  • Purchase grooms gift.
  • Record wedding gifts as they arrive, and write thank you notes.
  • Attend final dress fitting.
  • Select a guest book.
  • Ask a friend to handle the guest book at the wedding.
  • Make arrangements for flowers and gown preservation.

  • Call guests who haven’t responded.
  • Double check final details with vendors.
  • Try out the hairstyle and makeup for your wedding day.
  • Plan a seating arrangement for reception.
  • Prepare reception place cards.
  • Discuss ceremony seating with the best man.
  • Prepare and send wedding announcement to newspaper.
  • Check to be sure you have all the details:
  • Ring pillow
  • Cake knife
  • Toasting goblets
  • Favors for guests
  • Flower petals or confetti for guests to throw
  • Directions from church to reception
  • Invite bridesmaids out for a luncheon.
  • Pack suitcases for honeymoon.
  • Confirm logistics of getting flowers to the preservation  artist.
  • Compile a list of guests you want photographs of  for your album, give one copy to consultant and one to photographer.

  • Have your nails and hair done.
  • Attend the rehearsal and dinner.
  • Get a good night’s sleep

  • Have your hair and makeup done for the wedding.
  • Enjoy the day and give yourself plenty of time.
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